since my parents have passed away i really have no one to ask. well i think there are a few people, but god knows i wanna look like i'm grown up, like i got it all together, like i know what i'm doing. but then i sit down and i really have no clue sometimes.
i have a job and a place to live, a car, i pay my bills and yet there is this sense that something is missing? sometimes i'll admit i think it's a man, then i realize nope, that's not it either. then maybe it's having a child, then i spend time with the teen i live with and, nope that's not it either??
what's the missing part of me.... where did i go astray?? who am i supposed to be, where does it go from here....
our world is so messed up and who knows which direction we will go next. good/bad, happy/sad, i think those depend on how you look at things. i mean i realize things are tough and we need to pay attention to all that we do, but if you look around, we are still very blessed people.
maybe my direction is farther south, north, maybe east, west? i still don't know. i know who i am, i know what i want in some area's of my life. it just seems when i know what i want, it eludes me... funny thing my desires are simple.
guess maybe the simple things are the hardest to achieve. let's see:
someone to spend my life with
a child to call my own
a home
a family
debt free
stable
a life filled with laughter/joy/pain/beautiful disaster, life.... lived to it's fullest
good friends
understanding of my past and open minded to my future....
goodness, my path can go in any direction...
i once was given a scripture and it's seems funny now... prov 3-5 & 6: trust in the lord with all your heart, lean not in to your own understand and he will direct your path(paraphrased). i guess i've never learned to trust... i keep my heart hidden though some think they know, they don't. some think they have me figured out, they don't. what lies beneath... a strange and wonderful configuration that makes up me....
guess i need to work on that trust thing and see what it brings?? i'm scared and i wanna know where does it go from here....